I don't wish suffering on anyone—who doesn't want to learn

I was going to say "I don't wish suffering on anyone" but I felt that wasn't exactly what I wanted to say

Because if someone said that of me, I would disagree. Because the only way I've ever learned was through suffering. And I would want to have learned, but to do so I would have had to suffer

So, to be fair to everyone else in the same way I was fair to me, I have to say it this way—

I don't wish suffering on anyone—who doesn't want to learn

It's a much more honest statement